Do you know what squirting is and how it really works? This is everything you need to know to make your partner ejaculate.
What is squirt?
The meaning of squirting is simple: in English, the word squirt means splash, spray, this name is due to the fact that the woman has a spray orgasm in which she does not ejaculate from the vagina, but from the urethra (the smaller hole from which she normally urinates).
The liquid is not composed of just urine, in fact, it is also a sort of prostatic fluid that resembles the male one, its origin derives from the Skene's glands and paraurethral glands that fill with fluids thanks to precise stimulation.
How to make a woman ejaculate
The technique for squirting is simple: it is necessary to intensely stimulate (gently though, please) the famous G-spot, which is not very easy to find, but it is a very sensitive point inside the vagina that reacts to strong pressure.
It is located on the front part of the vagina, about 5 cm from the opening.
To make a woman squirt some premises are:
- make her relax: foreplay is fundamental. A massage, kisses, caresses on the clitoris and, once you are both quite aroused, you can start penetrating her with a finger. It is important that she is well lubricated to avoid discomfort, perhaps by buying a water-based lubricant.
- Stimulate the right spot: once you see her ready, relaxed and you are already stimulating her with a finger, try to insert a second one. Two fingers (especially middle and ring) help to better reach and stimulate the G-spot. It is necessary to look for the urethral sponge, that spongy cushion of tissue, similar to a small ping pong ball on the upper part of the vagina (when she is lying on her back). Don't forget the clitoris which should be stimulated as well.
- Move the fingers in a precise way: insert the fingers 3-5 centimeters, bend them a bit in an arc pointing them towards the upper part of the vagina and move them rhythmically up and down, but also back and forth. The speed can vary, just observe how she reacts and adjust accordingly.
During stimulation, many women have the sensation of needing to urinate and tighten the pelvic muscles at the moment of orgasm to hold back, not all are used to this sensation.
Orgasm with squirting during penetration
It is possible to enjoy female squirting even during a normal sexual intercourse, it all depends on the angle of penetration: you need to make sure that the penis stimulates the G-spot with quick and intense movements.
The vibrator for squirting
If you can't achieve the result with your fingers, you can try with a squirting vibrator: you need to choose one with a slightly inclined tip (aka: banana-shaped) designed specifically to reach the G-spot and provoke the squirt.
Do all women squirt?
Squirting is something for everyone, there are no genetic differences that can prevent it, but obviously, it is necessary that the woman wants to try it, knows herself very well, trusts the partner, and can relax.