Our code of ethics: Yoni, Lingam and couples Tantra
At Tantra del Sole, we put respect, consent, clarity and confidentiality first.
This code explains how we work with women, men and couples. Before every appointment, we clarify the approach and boundaries so that each person can choose freely and without ambiguity.
Ethics, clarity and safety first
We, Arcangelo and Katia, are committed to working with professionalism, reliability and respect. In Yoni, Lingam and couples massage, we maintain clear professional boundaries: the recipient is at the centre of the experience and does not need to consider a practitioner’s expectations or desires.
We always remain clothed
Our approach does not include practitioner nudity. This choice avoids distraction and ambiguity, allowing the recipient to focus inward and fully experience their own journey. We work on a professional massage table, in a setting centred on listening and privacy.
Through skilled, professional touch, we offer sensory stimulation and support awareness of bodily sensations, emotions, thoughts and spiritual experience. Our intention is to facilitate a rich, personal experience without promising a particular outcome or crossing into another type of service.
There is no physical reciprocity. Contact is limited to the professional touch needed to perform the massage, from us as practitioners to the recipient, within agreed boundaries. During Yoni and Lingam treatments, recipients do not touch or massage practitioners. During couples treatments, the partners do not touch each other or the practitioners.
We practise our professional activity under Italian Law No. 4 of 14 January 2013, concerning professions not organised into professional orders or registers, within its scope. We do not perform activities reserved to healthcare or other regulated professions. This reference is not a healthcare licence or certification of the treatment. Read the legislation.
Respecting professional boundaries
We provide Tantra treatments only to people aged 21 or over who request them consciously, have full decision-making capacity and can give free, informed consent. We do not provide medical, aesthetic or physiotherapy services. We do not diagnose, give prognoses, prescribe therapies or preventive treatments, or perform manipulation for curative or preventive purposes reserved to conventional medicine.
Through holistic practices, we aim to support overall wellbeing, personal balance and time for calm and relaxation. We use the language of energy balance and spirituality in an experiential and symbolic sense, not as diagnoses, clinical outcomes or promises of healing.
Consent, choice and personal boundaries
We agree on the approach and limits beforehand and listen to each person’s preferences. We do not treat consent as a blanket or permanent authorisation: it can be changed or withdrawn at any time. We respect requests to pause or stop, without pressure to cross a personal boundary.
We do not ask anyone to reach orgasm or respond in a particular way. For us, pleasure is part of awareness, not a performance test. Each person remains free to express doubts, ask questions, decide not to proceed or stop.
Purpose of treatments and non-negotiable rules
We facilitate a wellbeing experience that may involve sensory, emotional, bodily, mental and spiritual dimensions. In our approach, cultivating sexual energy means exploring vitality and sensation consciously, without turning the session into a sexual service.
We respect human, civil and sexual rights. We do not engage in violent, unfair, discriminatory or manipulative behaviour, and ask for the same respect towards us, other participants and the setting.
Clothed practitioners, a professional massage table, no physical reciprocity and no sexual services: these boundaries apply to Yoni, Lingam and couples treatments, including sessions observed by a partner.
No type of sex takes place, ever or under any circumstances.
1) We make clear that Tantra treatments are not an invitation to offer or request sexual services.
2) Our treatments are not intended to fulfil a request for sexual services. We approach sexual energy as vitality and awareness, seeking deep, nourishing fulfilment involving the whole body and inner experience, without guaranteed goals or outcomes.
3) During treatments and activities organised by Tantra del Sole, we require every participant to show full respect for us as practitioners and for the venue.
4) Couples treatments and sessions observed by a partner are not occasions for partner swapping or prostitution. Partners do not touch each other or the practitioners. We stop the session and may ask anyone displaying inappropriate behaviour or disrespecting these boundaries to leave.
5) Certificates are issued by AnimAyurvedica® and bear the Tantra del Sole logo.
Privacy, discretion and trust
We protect each person’s privacy with confidentiality, discretion and care. We do not disclose, share or recount personal information or experiences learned during sessions, in accordance with our Privacy Policy and legal obligations. We do not make follow-up calls unless agreed or expressly requested by the recipient.
We exchange information to clarify questions and concerns, not to persuade or manipulate. Choosing a treatment must be an independent, informed and consensual decision. You can ask for explanations before booking and take time to decide whether our approach is right for you.
This is how we work: professional presence, clear boundaries and respect for the individual.