Advice for women receiving tantra yoni massage
What happens during a tantra massage for women?
The experience of receiving a sensual massage
The only task of a woman who treats herself to a special moment through professional tantric yoni massage, perhaps for the first time, or receives it as a gift from her partner or a friend, is to allow herself to receive so much love. So much respect, such care and precision, so much pleasure, so many sensations, so many vivid emotions and so much relaxation.
This is neither something to take for granted nor anything trivial.
Think of the pace of your everyday life... so far removed from calm and pleasure...
Important: the massage is called "yoni massage", but it does not focus solely on the yoni. It is a genuine full-body massage, which also includes your intimate area, your sacred space, the gateway to your deepest joy.
Tips for making the most of tantra massage for women
Here are some tips I have written myself:
- You do not have to do anything at all; you only need to be yourself and listen
- Step out of your head and mind and experience full connection with your body
- Expect nothing, make nothing happen. It will happen by itself
- To experience the great energy of orgasmic pleasure, you need to surrender and relinquish control, entrusting the tantra massage practitioner with preparing the ground. In this way, you will release and transform your sexual energy, reaching a state of peace that puts you in touch with your unlimited potential.
- Keep your eyes closed or open. If you prefer, you can wear a blindfold (LINK to Yoni massage in the dark)
- Be aware of the energy moving through your body, of the electricity flowing once again and the shivers that begin moving here and there. Experience it as a meditation, as though looking at yourself in a mirror. Notice where your mind wanders and breathe consciously to be present and connected with the body
- As you surrender to deep pleasure, keep a small part of yourself aware and identify which part of the vagina has been activated. Make the most of every individual yoni massage session: it will help you better understand your erogenous zones and how you like them to be stimulated
- Make whatever sounds come naturally to you. Be yourself: free your voice! You will avoid blocking energy, and perhaps avoid headaches during and after the session too. If you feel pain, you cry out and complain, right? You can be free and natural in response to pleasurable stimulation too! Do you feel parts of your body relaxing? Breathe out the stress! Feel pleasure in an area? Express it through little sounds, breathing or words; move your body spontaneously! Do not hold back the free expression of your sensations!
- If you experience unpleasant emotions or feelings, let me know and relax without interrupting the session. Strong emotions come and go like waves in the sea; they are part of the process of restoring balance after difficult experiences in the past.
- Remember that an orgasm may be just a springboard to many other, deeper orgasms that last longer, with every wave rising higher. This will build with each session, giving you so much joy and happiness that it may seem unimaginable as you read this now.
- Try to remain present and focus on your breathing, breathing in through your nose and out through your mouth throughout the massage.
- Feel free to express verbally both negative and positive emotions by making sounds, speaking or moaning. There is no right or wrong way. It is what you feel: feel it fully.
- Give yourself permission to receive pleasure and move your body spontaneously to spread positive energy through every cell. Once again, there is no right or wrong way to do it.
- During the session you will enter a "slightly altered state of consciousness" compared with your usual routine at the office, for example. Your task is to receive so much love, pleasure and emotion through your yoni, your sacred space. You do not have to come, just be however you feel like being.
- During the session you will feel warmth along your spine, shivers upon shivers, surges of electrical energy, perhaps fear. Embrace these signs of accumulating energy that are spreading through your body.